I worked for several magazines in the 90s and 00s and 10s, and I was deeply disappointed to see that yet again, another article about giving him pleasure, and grooming women to enjoy it, instead of writing about the woman mindset that is still ashamed of their genitals, and how many- too many, refuse to receive oral sex in fear of being dirty, smelly and so forth. There should be more articles educating MEN to love giving oral sex, and shatter their perception that it is degrading to go down on a woman, or that drawing the alphabet with their tongue is the proper technique. Hint. It is not. This article is just outdated and still talking of HIS pleasure. Very disappointing.